What is a huge turnoff for you?
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My girlfriend and I are thinking about moving in together. We are in our late 40s. My net worth is much higher than hers. But she makes $200K. I live a much more modest lifestyle than her. She has more expensive tastes than I do and also spends more on household expenses than I do. No kids in the picture relevant for this conversation. How do we split expenses? I hate to nickel and dime as then it's not a relationship. However, I don't want to split on things I don't care about. Continued
Ok - I need input. I’m 28 (F) and my bf is 32 (M). I told him today that I spoke with my doctor who suggested I freeze my eggs. I spoke with my parents and my dad (a doctor) volunteered to come visit and take care of me during the process (hormone shots, etc.) and recovery from the procedure. Anyways, he got mad because he felt like I sprung this on him. He says me asking my parents for help shows I didn’t even consider asking him for help in my recovery. MORE IN COMMENTS
What do I do if I dont think my boyfriend's really into me? He's not an expressive-through-words kind of person and doesn't really give compliments, but he tells everyone how much he really likes me and thinks I'm beautiful. I want him to communicate his feelings through me and not hear it from other people. I also feel like he's losing interest. How do I gain it back? We are both 18 years old.
Women
Pineapple on pizza
To much perfume , bad hygiene , stink breath , not treating people or animals “ pets “ with respect .
Small body parts that demand attention. Go big or go home.
Being a motherly figure. I'm living life for the first time too. It's not my job to cater to you and try and take care of myself and be an adult for the both of us. YUCK.
Not being stupid/dumb/any other term or action thereof of lack of intelligence.. but specifically knowing the right action and being dumb anyways on purpose and not even in a teasing way or just spending time with you way, just always that way.. just.. not there mentally, flat turnoff and outright hate.
Should clarify; not even meaning not there as in spacing out constantly; i can be into that too, it's just not... being there, just no effort or anything and almost an intentional lack of intelligence. I'm good with dumb, just not smart acting dumb without any reasoning.
Fixed mindsets
Insecurity and barely any friends
I can see that one; but yeah, im careful about that one considering i know it's their 'me' time just as i need my own despite me using it on nobody but me rather than group/friend.. same importance, different target.. if played smartly, same time.. assuming the SO that's with nobody else isn't a jealous type, which is why personally i build mine off trust as i kind of am that entirely so i get the point of why that would be a turnoff if they're not looking for the 'sun' of attention type deal.. where the pressure is almost blinding, but yeah.. i could 100% see that being a flat turnoff for anyone not wanting to be a target of love type deal or wanting space if said person doesn't realize they're that way to the SO. ie. I could see it becoming a massive turnoff if the person with nobody is inexperienced which typically would be thought of as common since they have nobody, so i guess it's more of a have nobody is turnoff, choose nobody wouldn't be if played right.
My whole life so far
insufferable